A Gay Man’s Guide to Surviving a Big Break-up
Breaking up is hard to do, but the few weeks after are even harder. Cutting things off with someone you treasured is heartbreaking, while keeping him around can keep one or both of you stuck in the relationship. Here, three popular options for dealing with your ex after a break-up,…
Gay Seattle Guide: Delicious Eats That Are Worth Every Penny
Gay Seattle Guide: Emerald City is full of great places to eat and drink. Here’s a guide to all our favorite spots. Top Chef, Anthony Bourdain, and Mario Batali are a few culinary biggies who’ve spotlighted the food scene in the Emerald City, known for its fresh seafood and many James…
Take The Hit: Getting Over Your Fear of Rejection
Rejection hurts, but it’s the ‘fear’ of rejection that makes it hurt worse. If you want more dating success, you have to learn to take the hit. For some reason, single gay men everywhere are becoming less confident about making the first move when they see an attractive man giving them the…
Long-Distance Relationships: Your Survival Guide
“Maybe we can make this work! Maybe we can have a long-distance relationship that lasts until our separate lives collide and we can live in eternal bliss, together.” — If you have said this before, you might have actually found the one or you are really just in love with each other that…
Gay Houston Bar Guide
WHATEVER YOUR SCENE, YOU’RE COVERED IN H-TOWN Visiting Houston and not sure which bars to hit up? Don’t worry, we’ve got this. One good thing about H-town is that there’s a scene for just about whatever you’re into. From stand-and-model to boot scootin’ honky tonk, here’s your personalized hit list…
Gay Love Advice: Is Chatting Online Cheating?
Reader’s Question: My boyfriend and I have been in a monogamous relationship together for three years. Recently, I visited a gay dating website and created a profile. I’ve chatted and exchanged pics with guys but have never hooked up with anyone. My profile says “In a relationship” and I specifically say I’m…
The Escalating Demise Of Gayborhoods
Personal assistant Brenden Michaels is wondering if his days in Brooklyn are numbered. He still clings to a cheap rental flat in uber-gentrified Williamsburg, but has seen his neighbourhood’s prices skyrocket. He now laughingly suspects even the improvements he’s made to his own home may eventually come back to bite…
Gay Relationships: I Cheated on My Boyfriend. Should I Tell Him?
Reader’s Question: I cheated on my boyfriend and I’m not sure what to do. We talked about having an open relationship and he was adamantly against it—I was for it, did it anyway, and now I feel guilty as hell. I don’t want to lose him, but I don’t want to…
Talking with Your Partner about Sexual Matters
Many of us spend a lot of time and energy hoping to find Mr. Right. We also imagine that when we find him, the sex will always and automatically be fabulous. When we first meet someone new, we often feel so much passion that the specifics of what we are doing…
PDX Gay Guide: Downtown Portland
While the LGBT community is spread throughout the greater PDX area, the historical hot spot was the Stark Street Triangle where Burnside meets Stark Street. While no longer the center of the PDX queer universe, the Downtown Portland area, including the Pearl District and Old Town, are still thriving locations…
Prevent a Breakup: Mistakes Gay Men Make in Relationships
Straight, Gay, LGBT – We all want to have a great relationship but some of us just don’t know how to keep one. Here are some common mistakes Gay men make in relationships. 1. Open Relationships: While we may want to live interesting and experimental lives, the biggest mistake a Gay couple…
Gay Relationships: Tips for Keeping a Long-Term Relationship Fresh
For anyone who has been in a long-term relationship, there is no single answer on how to keep the spark alive. When you first start dating someone, there is a mixed bag of emotions including butterflies, excitement, and a sense of mystery. As time goes on, your relationship transitions to…