Challenging the Notion of ‘Gaydar’: Is Assuming Someone’s Sexual Orientation Harmful Stereotyping?
The concept of "Gaydar" has long been a topic of debate in the LGBTQ+ community. While some see it as harmless, relying on assumptions about sexual orientation can perpetuate harmful stereotypes and lead to misunderstandings. 📢 Let's challenge these notions and promote empathy, understanding, and acceptance for all! 🌈💖 #Gaydar…
Gay Love Advice: Should I End a Sexless But Otherwise Fine Relationship?
My boyfriend and I were friends for a couple of years (we’re both gay men, he’s 30 and I’m 26), then I stopped joining the military and pursued him. We’ve been boyfriends for two years now. We were both happy and we had sex on a regular basis during the…
How Same-Sex Couples Can Strengthen Their Relationships
There is a fallacy that somehow lgbtq+ relationships are different than straight relationships. But, whether gay, straight, trans or any other combination, when two people come together to date or to get serious, they face the same highs and lows that surface in any relationship. What exactly does it take…
What do you do when your boyfriend of almost five years suddenly tells you he’s straight?
What do you do when your boyfriend of almost five years suddenly tells you he’s straight? That’s what one Reddit user wants to know. “Yeah, umm. So a quick recap,” the man, who describes himself as gay and “40ish” begins. “We’ve been together 4 1/2 years. During that time…
Accepting It’s Over – Breaking Up and Moving On
No matter how many times we experience breaking up with someone, it can still hurt and threaten to overturn our lives. It can be extremely frustrating when a breakup is difficult to manage – even when we know the relationship is not right for one, or both, of the…
A Gay Man’s Guide to Surviving a Big Break-up
Breaking up is hard to do, but the few weeks after are even harder. Cutting things off with someone you treasured is heartbreaking, while keeping him around can keep one or both of you stuck in the relationship. Here, three popular options for dealing with your ex after a break-up,…
Gay Love Advice: Is Chatting Online Cheating?
Reader’s Question: My boyfriend and I have been in a monogamous relationship together for three years. Recently, I visited a gay dating website and created a profile. I’ve chatted and exchanged pics with guys but have never hooked up with anyone. My profile says “In a relationship” and I specifically say I’m…
My Boyfriend is Boring: How to Deal With It?
A boring personality is something I do not know how to deal with. I’m such an extrovert in my every day life that I find it difficult having the patience to deal with dull, shy, or unenthusiastic people, but that’s just me. Every once in a while, however, you start…
Gay Relationships: I Cheated on My Boyfriend. Should I Tell Him?
Reader’s Question: I cheated on my boyfriend and I’m not sure what to do. We talked about having an open relationship and he was adamantly against it—I was for it, did it anyway, and now I feel guilty as hell. I don’t want to lose him, but I don’t want to…
Talking with Your Partner about Sexual Matters
Many of us spend a lot of time and energy hoping to find Mr. Right. We also imagine that when we find him, the sex will always and automatically be fabulous. When we first meet someone new, we often feel so much passion that the specifics of what we are doing…
Gay Relationships: Tips for Keeping a Long-Term Relationship Fresh
For anyone who has been in a long-term relationship, there is no single answer on how to keep the spark alive. When you first start dating someone, there is a mixed bag of emotions including butterflies, excitement, and a sense of mystery. As time goes on, your relationship transitions to…
Gay Relationships: 5 Signs Your Boyfriend is Cheating
A cheating boyfriend can cause tension in any relationship. Everyone hopes their partnership is built on trust, but what happens when that bond is broken and you suspect your boyfriend is cheating? Here are a few signs: Suspicious Computer ActivityThese days, it’s easy to meet men in chat rooms, forums…