I had a relatively easy time with my own sexuality: a sheltered upbringing in Yorkshire in the 70s I came out to friends and family as gay while at university with no big issues. I moved to London and, for years, enjoyed a career in broadcast TV at the BBC, Read more…
For anyone who has been in a long-term relationship, there is no single answer on how to keep the spark alive. When you first start dating someone, there is a mixed bag of emotions including butterflies, excitement, and a sense of mystery. As time goes on, your relationship transitions to Read more…
Our greatest struggle in life isn’t to find our destiny, but to preserve it. Every person is born with an intuitive sense of who they are and how they feel. The trick is keeping those who convince us otherwise from interrupting the groove, and that’s easier said than done. We Read more…
I often get letters from men asking how to go about maintaining a friendship with an ex-partner after they’ve broken up, and this is no easy endeavor. But it is possible! In fact, this scenario is quite commonplace in the gay community. When some of us feel disengaged or removed from Read more…
Question: I have been out of the dating scene for 10 years after having been in a long-term relationship for that length and it has since ended. I find it difficult being back on the singles’ market. I currently find myself in a strange situation; I have met a guy through Read more…
I have dated party boys, ivy-league boys, model boys, even just plain… boys. But when it comes to “like,” I have a plethora of experiences. For many single gay men, finding love is like chasing a dream. It’s hard to confuse love with sexual tension or even a really heavy amount Read more…
It’s hard to accept when a relationship has ended, and it’s even harder to let someone go. In the fall of 2014, I had broken up with my boyfriend of seven years, and after months of solitude and grief, I was convinced that I was incapable of falling in love Read more…
Love has become a constant search. There comes a time in every man’s life when he has to question what devotion actually is. People are getting married way later than they used to, which means there are more young singles roaming the earth than ever before. Being single myself, I Read more…
What ethnicity faces the most discrimination in the gay community? Find out my take on gay racism in the latest episode of SexxxPerTease! Send me more dating/sex/relationship related questions… Escape One-Night Stands that leave you feeling hollow and unfulfilled! Stop searching in vain and on your own for a Long-Term Read more…
Justin is here to help you avoid giving the wrong answers when you’re asked “what are you looking for in a man”. This might even help you into a self-discove… Escape One-Night Stands that leave you feeling hollow and unfulfilled! Stop searching in vain and on your own for a Read more…