Perfection and Acceptance: Body Issues in The Gay Community
There is a problem arising in the gay community with our self-image. We are constantly ranked by our attractiveness everywhere we go. The gym, the supermarket, even the coffee shop. People underestimate the poison that these judgments give to other people. The next thing we know, we’re putting the bag…
The Difference Between Confidence and Arrogance
No one will respect you if you can’t respect yourself. Men in general find it hard to differentiate between confidence and arrogance. We notice it in other people’s behavior, but when it comes to our own, we fail to see anything except what we’ve tried desperately to hide from the…
Still Hiding in The Closet? 12 Hysterical Ways to “Come Out”
If you’re going to drop the big news … you might as well be clever about it! There is no right, wrong, good, bad, or perfect way to come out … only YOUR way. I belong to a speaker’s bureau for parents, families, and friends of lesbians and gays. We go…