Reasons Why You Should Date a Shy Guy
You look up from your book at the coffee shop and become paralyzed with nervous anticipation as you see the hot guy you’ve been smitten with from afar sit down at the table across the room.He’s alone today and what a great opportunity it would be to finally approach him…
Gay Relationships: The Exclusivity Talk
You’ve met the guy of your dreams. You want to be exclusive, but you don’t know if he does. OK, the “exclusive” conversation can be as loaded as a double-barrel shotgun. Before you have it, consider what your definition of exclusive actually is. Are you expecting to move in together?…
Are You Dating a Player?
This article will shed some light on the profile of a “player”, provide some tips for the “ex-player” to promote successful dating relationships without letting his past destroy genuine opportunities, and suggest potential warning signs for the gay dater that might signal that the guy he’s seeing might actually be…
10 Signs He’s a Total Beast in Bed
When our man is great at sex, you don’t really need to think about it. It’s evident by the way you want him time and time again, but despite how much you know, there are definitely some big signs to tell you just how good he is. Here are just…
Gay Relationships: Is Bad Sex a Deal-breaker?
You’ve probably done it; you’re driving home late at night feeling disappointed – or worse.. Maybe you’re pounding the steering wheel and shouting at yourself. You just finished sex with someone and you’re sorry you did it. You know the bumper sticker that says that the worst day at the…
Dating Advice: I’m Gay and Fat
Reader Question: I am overweight but a great person. Men don’t want to give it a chance unless they want just sex or money. Why are men so superficial? – Martin B. ——————————————————————————————————— Dear Martin, Men tend to be more visually wired than women. Couple that with a hyper focus on…
“No Asians, No Blacks.” ― Picky Dater or Racist Dater?
Grindr will get you laid. And possibly make you a crime victim. But among all those muscled chests and sexy profiles to swipe through, it takes about a second to find one with “no Asians” or “no blacks.” That’s racist and here’s why. The offensive quip in a profile is mostly…
Gay Dating Tips: How to Ace Your First Date
First dates are notoriously nerve-racking. There is a lot to account for: the location, the conversation, what to wear, etc. But sometimes all it takes is just a little planning to take your first date from scary to smooth. Here are some basics that will help you better plan your first date…
Take The Hit: Getting Over Your Fear of Rejection
There is an epidemic happening in the gay community, and it’s called the Fear of Rejection. For some reason, single gay guys everywhere are becoming less confident about making the first move when they see an attractive man giving them the eye. But what truly is the cause? For a lot of…
Are You Dating A Potential Cheater?
Recently I have had lots of correspondence from guys who have accidentally got involved with men who are either married or partnered. This is a common issue, and it’s something I’ve encountered in my own dating past. The world is full of cheaters – unfaithful men are found the world over…
How to Use The Power of Tease
Not everyone can be Casanova, though there are many guys who try to. If you’ve ever been in the gay dating world, you probably have seen your fair share. They’re the ones who try too hard to impress you, have witty pick up lines that are unoriginal, and are blindsided…
Gay Dating Dilemmas: How to Say No!
We have all been through our fair share of dating blunders, pitfalls and disasters. If you are single, it is easy to get discouraged after a few too many dating disappointments. But fret not, because there are men out there who are just like you, and it only takes finding…