Gay Love Advice: Is Chatting Online Cheating?
Reader’s Question: My boyfriend and I have been in a monogamous relationship together for three years. Recently, I visited a gay dating website and created a profile. I’ve chatted and exchanged pics with guys but have never hooked up with anyone. My profile says “In a relationship” and I specifically say I’m…
Gay Dating and the Impact of Social Media
There are no qualms about it…we live in a digital world now where technology is king and information and immediate gratification is readily available with the click of a button. It’s even impacted our dating and sex lives. In a matter of seconds, you can pull up a slew of…
2016 is a Great Year for Gay Dating
OK, so we’re a little late. Happy New Year, and all that stuff. Now let’s get into something more exciting: gay dating. If you’ve been in a rut for a long time and you’re just not sure about getting back in the dating pool, we have one thing to say to…
Gay Dating 101: The Things You Should Never Talk About
Dating is a lot of fun, but it also can be quite terrifying. We never know what’s going on inside his head, but we sure as hell can control what comes out of our mouths. Certain topics you might think are safe, for the most part, can end up sending…
College Dating Tips for Gay Men
When you’re a gay student in college, you might feel like you have fewer options for finding a date compared to your heterosexual classmates. It’s true that there are certainly a few more challenges for dating within the gay community in college. Some of the challenges with gay dating in college may…
Gay Dating Advice: Can a Single Gay Father Find Love Again?
Reader’s Question: I have recently joined a gay dating site but I’m not sure if my profile is an eye-catcher. I was married to a woman for a number of years and I have never had sex with a man. I’m now a single dad and have gone on a couple of dates…
Gay Dating: Are You Dating a Psycho Obsessive Stalker?
No one wants to date a psycho. The relationship will be frustrating, and even worse, you could put yourself and the people around you at risk. Unfortunately, there are plenty of nutjobs online. It seemed like such a great romance. He was just your type and the mutual attraction was instantaneous. Dates were…
Good and Bad Conversation Topics for a Successful First Date
Ah, the first date. Where great relationships begin, or stumble into awkward, dead-end conversation. To have a great conversation you often have to ask an open question and then follow up to the other person’s response with statements. Try not to ask a reel of questions. Instead, ask a question; listen…
Gay Dating and Violence: Are You Dating an Abuser?
Same-sex domestic violence doesn’t seem like a big problem to many gay men. Statistics are hard to come by; it’s hard to know the scope of the problem. Just like male rape, however, men find themselves being victimized on occasion. For men there can be the additional issue that because we…
Gay Dating Advice: What to Do When He Doesn’t Call You Back
You know the scenario. You go out on a first date with that incredible guy who seems like he meets all your criteria for good boyfriend material and you both seemingly had a great time. You maybe even got a kiss and exchanged lots of flirtatious banter that raised your…
Gay Dating Advice: How to Handle Age Differences
Reader Question: I recently met this guy who I really like. He told me he had screwed up every other relationship in his life and didn’t want to screw this one up. He admitted that I was everything he had hoped to find in a person. I told him I…
Gay Dating Tips for The Average Guy
Gay culture highlights youth, muscle, and good looks as valuable assets and commodities when it comes to sexuality and relationships. All one has to do is turn the pages of your favorite gay magazine and you’ll be distracted by photographs and advertisements of attractive men with chiseled bodies oozing sex…