Every person has a sense of self worth which may or may not be accurate. This self worth or self esteem allows a person to form beliefs and opinions. High self esteem does not mean pride or inflated ego, but an honest opinion of self. However, low self esteem does hint at closed mindedness, self-hate, self pity and other such negative views. Self esteem is very important to be successful in life and to protect yourself from being used and abused. It creates a feel-good factor in us which makes us like ourselves and others like us.
When it comes to dating, it’s easy to wrap our self-esteem around our perceived success or failure with men. When in fact, our sense of self-worth should have nothing to do with how many dates we acquire or how many guys like us.
It may seem like everyone else always gets the guy or has a phone list full of prospects, but that’s all they are… potentials. If you’re looking for a solid connection it’s going to take time and patience. I’d rather have the few really special guys than the many once-and-done’s.
That being said, success comes by playing the numbers. I’m not suggesting you play the boy, just the odds. If the first guy you meet doesn’t work out, try and establish a friendship and move on to the next romantic prospect. A rejection or a mismatch isn’t a knock on who you are as a person. You’re just not compatible. You’re not going to be into every guy you meet (for whatever reason) and the same goes for him.
We date in order to find someone with whom we are compatible. It’s like sampling a series of ice cream flavors, Xbox games, ringtones (…pick something) until you find the one that you like. It’s not personal, it’s preference. The more you leave yourself open to meeting people, the better odds you have of finding someone with whom you truly vibe.
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