Relationship Upgrade: From Friends to Lovers
It’s not unusual for someone to say of his lover, “He’s my best friend.” That’s a sweet thing. Of course, it’s also great to have a best friend who is not part of your relationship, especially at times when the relationship feels a little strained and we need some place to let off…
Gay Advice: What Makes a Healthy and Happy Relationship?
“Healthy relationships require patience, creativity, skill and commitment. It can be hard work, but few accomplishments in life are more satisfying.” Healthy intimacy is a dance that honors and enjoys our partner while not losing our sense of individuality. Time and activity with our partner must be balanced by activities…
Out On Film ― Atlanta LGBT Film Festival 2015
Out On Film, Atlanta’s LGBT Film Festival, is one of the leading LGBT film festivals in the United States. Each year, they showcase 75-100 films – narratives, documentaries, short films. They also show everything from international fare to local programming to retrospectives. Out On Film released a packed lineup for…
Gay Relationships: Importance of Sex Role and Penetration
Sex is one of the most intriguing parts of a committed relationship. Two minds, bodies and souls connecting in such a vulnerable way increase not only the excitement, but the ever-growing trust which is crucial in everyone. But why is it when we think of gay sex, we assume penetration…
Creative Ways to Breakup with Your Jerk Boyfriend
Breaking up is hard to do, well, almost. Ending a relationship doesn’t always have to be nice. Sometimes boy toys are just plain idiots and need to be taught a lesson. The trick to a great breakup is turning it into a symbol. If it was an awkward relationship, make…
Gay Relationships: How Much Do You Trust Your Partner?
“We can tell each other anything.” Maybe you’ve heard someone make that claim, usually with a little smugness. It’s taken as gospel that being able to tell your partner everything is a sure sign of health and maturity in a relationship. But is that always the case? Being able to trust…
Gay Guide: Top 10 LGBT-Friendly Cities in the U.S.
America has become a far friendlier place for people who are lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender. Personal finance website NerdWallet compiled a list of the top LGBT-friendly cities. They considered these factors for their rankings: The percent of residents within the city’s metro area identifying as lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender. The data came from Gallup and…
The Right Time for Love: Starting a New Relationship
Starting a new relationship can feel a bit disorienting. At first everything is exciting; this is what you’ve always wanted, right? Months or years – seems like a lifetime – of dating, and all of a sudden here he is! What’s next? Relationships require care and encouragement and it helps to get…
What Gay Men Should Know About Sexual Health and STIs
Having gay sex isn’t like it used to be in the dark ages. There are too many Sexually Transmitted Infections out there these days. The gay community needs to start paying attention with what goes on under the sheets. Though it seems like most sexually transmitted infections can be gone with a…
Gay Relationship Advice: I’m Dating a Married Man!
Reader’s Question: I met my boyfriend 4 years ago and he has 2 children. About a year into the relationship, I knew there was something not adding up. Well, I found out the hard way that he is still married to his wife! I tried many times to talk to…
Gay Portland Guide: PDX Drag Queens and Performing Arts
Drag queens and gay nightlife are inseparable in any city—one simply can’t exist without the other. Whether they’re holding court in gay bars, mixing things up at dance clubs or performing at cabaret spaces, these gender benders offer everything from impeccable lip syncs to vicious crowd work (often as part of the…
Gay Relationships: The Power of Loving Touch
Developing skill with touch is an important part of having successful relationships. Touch is critical to human beings. The love and support communicated through touch affirms our connection to others and has even been shown to contribute to the health of our immune systems. Many studies have shown that when infants…