How Gay Men Can Overcome the Hurdles and Find Mr. Right
OK, so, you’re gay, you want to find a partner and eventually a husband; someone with whom to share your life. However, you just can’t seem to meet the right guy or make the right connection. You keep coming up empty-handed, stymied in your efforts, no matter what you try.…
The Rebound Relationship: Good or Bad?
Mr. Right Now is never going to replace Mr. Perfect… Rebound relationships are common and always will be so long as love exists, which is forever. Casual hookups happen all the time in the gay community. When we’re going through a breakup, our smart phones are waiting for us to…
12 Powerful Habits of Happy Gay Couples
Habits can have a powerful impact in your relationship. The definition of a habit is: “a consistent and regular pattern of behavior”. You can either create positive habits or negative habits, and once you start practicing them, they will eventually become an act that is unconscious. When it comes to…
Which Online Dating Site is Right For Me?
One of the keys to successful online dating is in picking the right dating site to join. The wrong site will waste your time and cause a whole lot of frustration, while the right site will make the whole process seem easy as can be. By following a few guidelines, you can…
A Gay Man’s Struggle to Find Happiness
Finding love as a gay man is easy … once you fix your attitude (and realize YOU are the problem). Okay boys, men, and girls. Buckle up, because it’s about to get bumpy, and not in a fun way. I’m slipping on my Sassy Diva heels to dole out some tough…
Sex on The First Date: Good or Bad Idea?
Another common gay dating dilemma revolves around whether to have sex on the first date or not. This has often been a controversial subject among gay men, with opinions being split right down the middle. There’s not necessarily a right or wrong answer, as these types of scenarios are rarely ever black…
Perfection and Acceptance: Body Issues in The Gay Community
There is a problem arising in the gay community with our self-image. We are constantly ranked by our attractiveness everywhere we go. The gym, the supermarket, even the coffee shop. People underestimate the poison that these judgments give to other people. The next thing we know, we’re putting the bag…
Gay Advice: How to Meet New People Without Being Creepy
Reader Question: I’m a very quiet guy when alone. All my friends say when people first meet me, people feel like I’m about to beat them/kill them. They say it’s the way my eyes are, but I don’t know how that makes guys so afraid of me. I’m not bad…
The Difference Between Confidence and Arrogance
No one will respect you if you can’t respect yourself. Men in general find it hard to differentiate between confidence and arrogance. We notice it in other people’s behavior, but when it comes to our own, we fail to see anything except what we’ve tried desperately to hide from the…
Selfish Lovers and Unsatisfied Partners
You love your boyfriend more than anything and can’t imagine life without him. Things are generally good between you…except when it comes to sex. You hate to admit it, but it’s just not satisfying to you. He’s a bit selfish in bed, wanting you to do all of the work to…
Don’t Be The Crazy Ex: 8 Things to Avoid Doing After a Break Up
Regardless of the circumstances, breaking up with your boyfriend is NEVER fun. Dealing with the emotions is hard enough, but the last thing you want are people talking about how you’re obsessed with your ex and how sad it is. It’s easy to fall into that role of the crazy…
Starting Over: Falling In Love Again
It’s hard to accept when a relationship has ended, and it’s even harder to let someone go. In the fall of 2014, I had broken up with my boyfriend of seven years, and after months of solitude and grief, I was convinced that I was incapable of falling in love…