The Real Meaning of POWER BOTTOM
A Power Bottom Can Take It ALL Night! Gay people like to expand their terminology on a daily basis. I particularly enjoy making up my own words on the D.L. and seeing how fast it spreads in the pipeline, but if there’s one thing I will never stand for it’s…
Gay Dating: When Your Online Match Doesn’t Meet Your Expectations
Every date I’ve had in the past year had originated from an online source. One of the earliest began with the occasional hello on gay dating apps and eventually escalated into a full-fledged text relationship. We realized through our incessant messages we were texting on the precipice of a great relationship. Everything was going…
10 Reasons Why Gay Men Hate Their Bodies
NUDE IS THE NEW BLACK Gay men everywhere are cursing their bodies as a matter of form. It’s become normal to not like the way you look so more people are joining in on the fun. Personally, I find it a disgrace. As someone who actually loves his body, I know…
Are You Dating a Psychopath?
Are you dating a psychopath? And by that, I’m not referring to a fear of your loved one parting the shower curtain with a butcher’s knife. One definition of a psychopath is “a person suffering from a chronic mental disorder with abnormal social behavior.” As with any mental illness, it can…
A Dating Guide for Gay Virgins
While our gay community is enjoying some well-deserved heightened acceptance of our identities and relationships in society nowadays, the process of coming out as a gay man to ourselves and others can still be a difficult and painful journey. Coming to terms with our sexuality means facing the fact that we’re…
Why Masculinity Matters to Gay Men
We’ve tricked ourselves into thinking that masculinity is the only way for the world to take us seriously…There’s always an opportunity for a guy to prove himself either to the world, a lover, a friend, a boss, or a family member. I remember growing up in a home where a…
Top vs Bottom: How Important Is Your Sex Role?
In my years of dating, I’ve managed to come across countless of gay men who wear their sex position on display. Dating is hard enough, but for LGBT men it can get a bit more complicated when the entire focus is on sex. Top, bottom, versatile becomes need-to-know information in…
Running Your Own Relationship Pow-Wow
Let’s face it–life can be pretty darn hectic sometimes! Juggling all those commitments and trying to balance the roles and responsibilities you have can be quite challenging, and the one area of your life that can take the biggest hit is your relationship. It can be so easy to take…
Gay Advice: Finding a Partner vs. Finding a Fantasy
I’m like you and you’re like me – we all want to love, but most importantly we want to be loved in return. This is the secret to living a long and successful life, yet we’ve failed to put two and two together when it comes to choosing a compatible mate. I’m…
Advice: Having an Affair with a Married Man
QUESTION: I am in a relationship with a man who is married. He dosen’t kiss me or screw me like I want him to, but he doesn’t for fear of what I don’t know. He says he is not gay. He says his marriage may be without sex but claims he is solid…
The Truth About Casual Gay Sex
Casual Gay Sex Encounters I know I don’t have to tell you that gay men enjoy sex, honey. But so does everyone else – it’s called being human. One thing that separates us from the rest of society, unfortunately, is our experience with casual sex. It’s become a stereotype we often try to fight…
Gay Dating: 5 Tips On Wooing Your Valentine
Picture this: You dating a new guy and you think he’s absolutely awesome. The relationship is still pretty new, but the chemistry is there and you see the potential for something long-term to develop. You want to make plans for Valentine’s Day, but you are not exactly sure what to…