Gay Relationships: The Importance of Kissing To Gay Men
I’m one of those people who love to kiss. There’s something about it that not only breaks the ice, but becomes a sign of compatibility. If he’s too aggressive, it might be a reflection on his personality. If he’s too lazy, it might be a sign of major commitment issues.…
Restoring Trust In Gay Relationships
Trust is probably the most important ingredient in fostering a healthy committed relationship and is commonly known to be the glue that cements a couple together. Trust is the endearing faith and confidence that your partner will respect you and not take advantage of or hurt you. It’s a feeling…
Gay Dating: 5 Rules To Have A Good Blind Date
You might be surprised to know that the gay community has the most blind dates than any group in America. And no, Grindr hook ups do not count as a gay blind date. I’m referring to actual meetings with strangers in public places to build a connection, hoping to develop a long…
Do Opposites Really Attract for Gay Men?
Many gay men are under the assumption that opposites attract. Though this may be true when it comes to sexual attraction, as far as relationships are concerned, turns out birds of a feather really do flock together. According to research, similarities have nothing to do with physical appearance or even personalities. On…
Why Are Closeted Gay Men So Hard To Date?
Typically men who are not out are open with those they date about being in the closet to family and friends. They can often lead a life that from the outside appears in double: One with their gay friends and lovers and another with family, friends and coworkers. How can…
Ageism In The Gay Community
The glory days of being new and fresh to the gay world has faded, and suddenly we are relocated to the back of the bar with all the other old farts in the house. When did this happen? With no warning, we became the very person that we had once…
Gay Dating: Are We More Than Just Friends?
QUESTION: I have been out of the dating scene for 10 years after having been in a long-term relationship for that length and it has since ended. I find it difficult being back on the singles’ market. I currently find myself in a strange situation; I have met a guy through…
Should I Date A Bisexual?
Don’t get me wrong, I love me a bi-sexual. There’s something erotic to the idea that your boyfriend swings both ways. It somehow makes them more mysterious and intriguing which makes you want them even more. There’s been a debate in the gay community for a while now – at…
Gay Relationships: Are You Lost In Love?
Relationships are a dance in which sometimes one person leads and sometimes the other does. The dance can be awkward – especially if you are first learning the steps or when you have a new dance partner. Perhaps your partner crowds you and steps on your toes, or maybe he…
Are Gay Men Setting Their Standards Too High?
As a kid my parents told me I could have anything I ever wanted in life if I worked hard. Whether it was getting into the best college, achieving success at my job, or finding the perfect man, I assumed that all things were at an arm’s reach – but…
Has Gay Flirting Turned Digital?
Remember the thrill of flirting with a guy on the subway or having small talk with the hottie at your friend’s party? It was exciting and kept you on your toes, not to mention boosted your self-esteem to incredible heights. Well, something has changed drastically within the last five years.…
Why You Shouldn’t Be Afraid To Meet Someone New
One thing you ought to know about me is that I was raised knowing nothing is guaranteed. That in a nutshell should explain a lot about my childhood. My parents, being the cynical people they are, taught me to never put all my eggs in one basket. I have to admit, it’s…