Bottoms Up! Can Two Bottoms Make a Relationship Work?
Question: Can two bottoms in a monogamous gay relationship make it work? The answer to this…a resounding yes! But this will also depend on what you put into the relationship, as well as the attitude that goes along with it. I recently wrote an article about top/top couple pairings. It’s quite interesting…
The Gay Man’s Dating Guide: 7 Tips on Finding ‘The One’
Let’s face it, finding the man you’d like to spend the rest of your life with isn’t easy. Then again, should it be? Think of the time and energy (and maybe money) you spend on finding the perfect apartment or the perfect job. Why would finding a life partner be…
Gay Dating 101: Use Your Dating Time Wisely
As resources become more limited, our lives are becoming more efficient. We thirst for more conscious everything: cars, appliances, materials, and our personal and professional time. Industries and individuals can no longer afford waste of any kind. Still, despite the limitation of resources, our needs and desires change little (if…
Can Gay Relationship with Big Age Gap Work?
Jimmy and Randy are very much in love and have been together for more than a year. They’re now moving forward by living in together. There seems to be a problem, though: Jimmy is 23 and Randy is 40. The big age gap is driving people surrounding Jimmy crazy, especially…
Top 10 Myths About Same-Sex Weddings
Now that there are more and more same-sex weddings being planned, it’s a really great time to take stock of how to serve these couples with their wedding plans. I’ve spent a lot of time speaking to people in the wedding industry about same-sex weddings, and I’ve noticed that a…
Gay Dating Tips for the Holidays
Holidating: Below are a few dating tips for the holidays. 1. If you are single and going to a holiday party, whether it be work or with friends, lay low on the alcohol. You always want to remain in control of what you do and say. 2. When taking your…
Penis Size ― Does it Matter in The Gay Dating Scene?
We all care about penises. If we didn’t, this article wouldn’t exist for a start. When it comes to the subject of penis size however, opinion on how much this actually matters varies wildly from one cock-hungry homosexual to another. Some of us simply adore a massive meat mound, while others couldn’t…
Gay Dating 101: Sex On The First Date? Put Safety First!
We had a great time on our first date. Sure, we had met online, but everything was on the up and up. We had great conversation over drinks and dancing. The emotional and sexual chemistry was definitely there. We joked about our families. We talked about our jobs and work…
Gay Relationships: Stages of Dating to Mating
It’s easy to get ahead of ourselves. What’s the rush? I think dating is easier for straight couples. For one thing, if your straight everyone wants to fix you up with someone they know. But gay guys are really at a disadvantage when it comes to language about dating.And language…
Can There Be Two Tops in a Relationship?
I often get letters from guys who are in the throes of dating relationships with men of the same sexual role preference (two tops, the ones doing the penetrating during sex, and two bottoms, the ones being penetrated) and find themselves experiencing frustration and conflict when their sexual fulfillment takes…
The Divide Between Gay Men And Straight Women
Being gay means accepting that, one day, you could be left behind by the ones you love. Let me explain. When you’re in your twenties, your straight girlfriends are practically your other half. You spend days attached at the hip, lying around having “I LOVE YOU” marathons, and nurturing an…
Ingredients for a Successful Gay Relationship
When you’re on the dating scene, it can seem overwhelming trying to remain centered on staying true to your personal requirements for a compatible partner and potential relationship when you have so many competing forces vying for your attention. Not only do you have to keep the other parts of…